Who Can Blame Her Anyway?

This is based on a true story......

A makcik story to my mum..
She has 3 grandchildren from her 1st daughter...
the first two have very distinctive look...
white-radiant - skin with the kind of hindustani feature..
but the youngest one, a girl,
still has this cute, little face,
only that she is a lil bit darker n not as chubby as her brother n sister..
i should say, she is more towards javanese look..
so, everytime this makcik bring her grandchildren to a place,
the people begin questioning..
"cucu ke ni?"
"ye"
"adik beradik ke di0wg ni?"
"ye"
"abes knpe yg ni lain??" (while pointing towards the youngest one)
"erkkkk..."

n this does not happen once, but all the times..
the sad thing is they ask in front of that little girl..
so, this little girl (let's call as A), of course becomes emotionally affected..
one day, A's sister ask A to cut short of her hair..
bc0z it's too long..
so what A did was she cut her sister's hair unaligned..
when their parents came back home, they asked A why she did such thing...
then A answered, "padan muka akak buruk"..
n yeah, she always bullies her sister, n do everything to get attention..
jealousy?
sound so..?
rebellious?
it seems..
should we blame her?
you answer it..
she is 8 yrs old, n growing up with stigma that she is not as beautiful as her sister...
the parents did not distinguish between them,
but if the society keep on doing such thing,
questioning why she is different from her siblings...
there is no way that she can escape from her own conflicts
tell me, who likes to be compared?

if we find someone that may be different from his siblings
or even his parents..
can we just stop the curiosity?
curiosity kills the cat..
n the cat now is the person that becomes the point of curiosity..
or at least, if we are truly desperate to let out the questions,
can we just ask behind the person?
espcially if the child is already schooling n aware of her situation..
if the kid grows up with lots of emotional conflicts, is not a good thing...

yeah..
n btw..
come back to the story.
myb to people,
A is not beautiful because of her skin colour..
hey, she has upper hand advantage..
dark skin means higher melanin production, which means she can survive
under intense heat n lower risk of getting skin cancer..
God's creation, always have a reason..
we think it is flaw, but He knows it will be the best..
natural selection as we call it in Biology..
n who says all dark people are not beauty..
"Hitam itu menawan, Hitam nampak Kemas, Kemas bergaya Bermakna tiada Kelemumur"..(ttbe)
yeah, i like man with dark skin, because i think it is macho
(OMG! i've let the secret out!..haha~~ not all but some..=p)

should we teach the entire society about genetic variation that will explain about the differences in features among siblings?